Realizing the Role of the Asian man in Get Out: An Asian Girl’s Review of Get Out

So I recently watched Get Out.

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And HOLY SHIT.

It was one of the most brilliantly crafted movies of all time. The symbols and metaphors in every single scene were amazing. I want to watch it again, just to catch every single part. It told such an amazing story about the struggles of being African American and the fear of what it means to be black in a white world.

So I’m going to discuss the movie so this is your

SPOILER ALERT!

If you haven’t seen it, GO SEE IT. It’s amazing and stunning and important and just everything. Seriously, stop everything you are doing and go see it.

One thing stuck out to me the most. It was subtle and people might’ve missed it.
But I am an Asian woman and I could not ignore it and I think that was the whole point. I think when that Asian man came into the shot, Jordan Peele (the director, creator, producer, all around amazing person) was calling out and reaching out to the Asian population. I think he did it so subtly as a way that it would only hugely impact the Asian people watching. He was 100% correct. I was shook but my other friends weren’t as much. It really got me thinking. Seeing that man, in the crowd of white people who were definitely up to no good and then seeing him again as such as weird question, and then finally seeing him at the creepy ass silent auction made me realize something.

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I will fully acknowledge that as a whole, Asians are seen and are at times “have it better” but that in no way means that we are not discriminated against. However, Asians are known for assimilating better and have stereotypes, as people have literally told me, that are “not that bad.”

So to other POCs, it makes sense why an Asian man, not a Middle Eastern or Latino person or any other race, is hanging out willy nilly among the evil white people.

To me, it meant more than that. It made me reevaluate my own racial status, which I think was the intention. I don’t think it was meant to bring down Asians but to let us view our roles in society.

But another thing that really caught me was the question that the man asks, “Is the African-American experience an advantage or disadvantage?”

Now this, just elevated everything to a whole new level. This is where I fully understood why Jordan Peele is probably one of the smartest guys in Hollywood right now.

Asians are immigrants. So many of my Asians friends are first generation Asian Americans. I’m not even the first generation Asian American. My children will be. We are still outsiders. I am still an outsider. I am still an immigrant. When people yell, “Go back to where you came from,” it makes more sense than yelling at an African American person who was born in American and have ancestors rooted in America.

So while African Americans are discriminated against and racism between whites and blacks are still so rampant, an Asian man understands that being black is more likely to be a part of the American society than being Asian. The Asian man, unlike the other old white people, is not concerned with Chris’ strength, youth, or abilities. He simply wonders about Chris’ experience as a black man and tries to evaluate whether that is better than his own experience as an Asian man in America. 
One part that this movie got wrong was making the Asian man completely side with the scary ass white people in the movie. He was viewed as if he was never belittled for his race. I have had racial slurs and racist remarks thrown at me by people of all races. However, there is a difference in the racism that I experience opposed to a black man. I don’t fear for my life when I see a cop. I do not fear physical harm but that does not mean I don’t experience discrimination. I understand that the fearing for your life is more detrimental than being called racial slurs and told I’m a cultural experience for non-Asian men to have (“I’ve never been with an Asian girl” Yeah and you never will, you asswipe).
Okay seriously side note: I literally had someone tell me that Asian women are more disregarded because people who fought in the Vietnam and Korean war had Asian prostitutes in the Asian countries so now people equivocate Asian women as more sexual beings, so like if I find a prostitute here in America, do I go back to Korea and regard all white men as prostitutes? What the fuck man? That’s the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard. Like because of what happened YEARS and YEARS ago, it’s okay for you to think that I am more willing to have sex with you? Also if you seek out prostitutes in a different country, you will most likely get a prostitute of the race of that country so you cannot come back to your own country and then tell your children, “all Asian women are prostitutes.” You bigoted sociopath.
ANYWAY,
I have been disregarded as a human because of my race many times. My parents experience it more simply because they have an accent. They are viewed as lesser. We do not understand white privilege but for some reason, other races think we do.
I mean remember when Miley Cyrus did this and then said that she was just making a “goofy face.” Sure Miley, SURE.
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We also ignore Chris Rock’s shitty use of those Asian children during the Oscars. How am I supposed to applaud a man that talks about being discriminated against while he discriminates another race?
Why is it more acceptable to discriminate against Asians? Why?
If you are so upset about discrimination, then stand up for other people discriminated against too. Don’t say, “Well I got discriminated against so it’s okay for me to discriminate other people who don’t look like me. Let’s bring some Asian children up here and put racist stereotypes on them and make everyone laugh, what a great idea.”
I, personally, will always stand up for anyone who is being discriminated against. I will defend the rights of every human being if I can. I will not stay silent. I will march alongside people of all races. I will not use other people’s pain as a punchline. I will show up. And I would like everyone else to do the same.
So yeah, Asian people do need to do more but other NBPOCs need to do more as well. All POCs need to do more for one another. Along with that, everyone, as people, need to do more. We cannot just sit on the sidelines and watch other people get discriminated against. We all need to stand up for one another because we are all humans. We cannot keep categorizing one another.
This movie is a call to action for us NBPOCs. The movie calls us to do more. It wants us to stop being silent. We cannot sit by when an entire group of people is being discriminated, belittled, and attacked. We need to do something. A wake up call.
And to all people, this is a reflection of our society that we need to change. We need to step up.
This movie is so important. It is one of the most important movies. I will forever stand by that statement.
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A History Lesson with Indiana

Note: I would like everyone to understand that there are people in Indiana that does not agree with this law. I’m sorry if it sounds like I’m grouping everyone together. I guess I am aiming my disappointment more towards Indiana’s political power and government. Also I just want to make clear that I completely understand that this law isn’t directed as the LGBTQ community specifically, people have just made it clear that this is the community that is most aimed towards. I just think discrimination of any kind is wrong.

I have been hearing a lot about this “Religious Freedom” law being passed in Indiana.

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WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?

I am so greatly disappointed. GREATLY DISAPPOINTED. Apparently, the U.S. government decided to go back in time. Is this a huge nation wide history lesson or something? This is ridiculous.

If you don’t know what the “Religious Freedom” law is, well I’ll give you a brief summary. It gives business owners a legal defense to refuse service to members of the LGBTQ community.

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I don’t know what religion these people are following but it is definitely not Christianity. There is nothing in the bible that says, “Thou shall turn away paying customers because of who they love.” Was that like the 11th commandment or something? Did I miss something? Did I skip the day when they taught that in Sunday school?

“Alright kids, God loves everyone, except gay people so don’t serve them when they come into your restaurant.”

“So Jesus hung out with prostitutes and tax collectors but it doesn’t say gay people so they cannot have fries with that order.”

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I’m just saying. I’m a Christian. My religion taught me to love everyone because they are all God’s children. This wouldn’t be a huge problem if Christians actually understood what the Bible was trying to teach us. If you are a Chrisitian then all you business owners in Indiana should be like, “Yes, your business is very welcome here at this establishment because God told me not to discriminate and love everyone so I don’t care if you’re gay or straight because that has nothing to do with me or my religion. You do you.” Right? No? Wait what? I’m confused.

Well okay, I came up with a plan to combat this. I am going to move to Indiana, open up a business and then refuse to serve anyone that don’t support equality. It is my religious freedom, right?

I mean do you realize how STUPID that sounds? Are we just going to start turning away people of different races or different gender because it’s our “religious freedom”? Well if that’s true, then I am totally screwed. WHAT RELIGION ARE YOU FOLLOWING? SERIOUSLY. SOMEONE ANSWER THIS QUESTION FOR ME BECAUSE I AM SO DAMN CONFUSED.

Also you are a dumbass for turning away business. Who gives a shit what their sexuality is? They want to buy your stuff so let them. They are giving you money. If a gay person tries to randomly give you a million dollars, are you just going to be like “Oh no, sorry I don’t want that because you’re gay.” No because that’s literally the stupidest thing ever.

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Well, Indiana, just took like a million steps back in progress and I am ashamed of you. When people said that history repeats itself, I really hoped this wasn’t what they were talking about but I guess I was wrong. I thought we were in the 21st century. I thought we were a generation that fought for equality and love. So far, from the things I’ve read and seen in society, that is not what is happening and it breaks my heart. I hope we can move forward one day. I hope that one day we can stop being so stupid and teach each other with respect and as human beings. Why are we all so afraid of change? Our society is broken and we need to fix it and that requires change. Do you not want to see progress? Do people not want for us as humans to evolve into better beings? Are we so scared of progress that we are willing to destroy each other? Is this what our society has come down to? I think we can do better. I don’t think equal human rights is an intangible goal. I think we can do it.

Please remember that and take note, Indiana: At the end of the day, no matter your sexuality, race, or gender, we are all human and no religion can change that.

-J